Why Communication is So Important in a Relationship

I’m sure you’ve been told this time after time that communication is vital in a healthy relationship. But what does that really mean?

With good communication, relationships can quite easily develop into something strong and long-lasing. You want to share what’s important to you with someone you care about, letting them into your life. Moving forward with that special someone and developing a partnership that is happy and successful.

Whether you’re in a relationship, situation-ship or even an entanglement, it’s always good to take a step back and see if you’re getting the best from your partner, and vice versa.

You may be single reading this and thinking this doesn’t apply to you, but trust and believe this post is for everyone! Being single myself, I understand the importance of communication and appreciate when you have a good thing going, you want to make it last. So when that time comes for all you single folk to bless someone’s life with your presence, beauty and excellence, just know your future partner will be everything you need and more. Never underestimate your worth. Period.

Get to know each other. When you communicate, you are allowing yourself to open up. It would be difficult to get to know a person, their likes and dislikes, if you weren’t consistently speaking to one other. Your relationship can reach a deeper level if you’re able to be honest with each other and want to connect, want to understand each others needs and goals.

Sharing with your partner regularly is a major factor towards a successful relationship. You will begin to feel more at ease and start connecting in different ways; emotionally, physically, mentally and even spiritually. The communication will lay the foundation of your relationship journey, cementing it into a successful one. Avoiding the risk of your relationship feeling stagnant or incomplete.

Don’t be afraid to talk. It might be intimidating at first to have certain conversations with your partner. But rest assured, you will draw closer to that special someone the more you are willing to confide in them. Find out what their dreams and ambitions are, what they want from the relationship and if they align with what you see in your future.

In some instances, you might be nervous or even have your guard up from past relationships and experiences. However, you shouldn’t let this hold you back. What didn’t work in the past has directed you towards a better future. You have to take things each day as they are. The more you begin to have these conversations with your partner, the more comfortable the relationship will be.

Misunderstandings are less likely. When you and your partner communicate, you’re more likely to know what your partner wants and expects of you, and vice versa. If a situation occurred where you are upset over something your partner has done, you can discuss it. Communicate how their action made you feel and why it made you feel that way. This avoids any reoccurring situations, because you have understood and overcome that. Feelings aren’t misplaced and you can move forward.

Boundaries are set. At a certain point in your relationship, you’ll know what your limits are and what your partners limits are too. You’ll know what irritates them the most and avoid that, because you’ve spent time growing your relationship together.

Regular communication makes it easier to respect each others boundaries. Not crossing the line if you get into a disagreement, but rather listening to one another and understanding what consequences could occur based on your actions. Learning not to dismiss your partner in the moment, but making sure what they feel is validated. When the respect is reciprocated between one another, your relationship will definitely thrive.

Trust is built. Communication goes hand in hand with trust. You’re able to create a safe space within your relationship. Worries and doubt fade away so you feel a sense of security, putting your mind at ease. As a woman, I know I love to speculate and end up needing reassurance that everything is okay. Low-key problematic but with good reason! The trust that you build helps rid you of unnecessary overthinking and speculation. It makes you feel comfortable and happy in your relationship, which is the goal.

I hope you found this helpful, whether you’re in a relationship, or single and not even thinking about it! In all aspects of life communication is the foundation. If you feel as though you are not getting the most out of your partner in this aspect, try and talk it through! What comes easy to you might not for them, recognise your differences and build a strong, happy and healthy relationship together.

–Seraphina